Its was like a few of days back that I found out we're not gonna have a joint reception as Mr.H & I planned wayyy before we got engaged.
My fmil, Mr.H aunties n his opah dengan selamba berborak2 during dinner about their plans for the reception. Its gonna take place at their house, this & that bla bla.. Hello!! I was right in front of them and terkebil2 but I managed to senyum and gelak2 *Allah je tahu perasaan i that time*. Bukan i tak suka the plan, it just i wasnt informed about it. In fact, MR.H pun x tahu at all. We both just layankan je plan mereka2 itu.
Habis hancur musnah all my dreams, angan2 etc & i was soo frustrated!!
But i know, fmil is the biggest sponsor nanti.. so xleh nak complaint lebih2. I have to redha and just wait n see what will happend next! Hopefully, semuanya OK!
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p/s: now tgh sibuk mencari designer for nikah n reception & also tukang make-up!
Daa~
Daa~
4 comments:
hehe kalo family the biggest sponsor for u
mmg takleh nak complaint, adat le tu.
time nak tunang ke kawen ke
mesti ade je yg nak menyelit
i've been in ur shoes before (=
praying n hoping that everything goes well
insyaAllah. i'll pray the best for ur dream wedding dear!
Relax babe...Everything gonna be ok....
I'm sorry to hear that dear, but benda2 nie mmg betul n byk terjadi, kadang we have to sacrifice untuk orang lain, i mean, our family lah. dari perkara sekecil2 n sebesar2, ada ajer, nak jaga hati semua pihak susah jugak, kadang kita yang menahan perasaan, what about what we want,its our wedding after all? susah jugak, tapi kalo if its our money, senang jugak kita nak tetapkan pendirian, but if its their money, itu yang terpaksa telan nak tak nak. Diana try slow talk, mana tau boleh compromise ker, maybe they will understand about your needs kan. jangan tension2 k diana, senyum2 selalu! Hugs~
hi diana, i know how it feels.. i wanted a joint reception too but couldn't do anything when it comes to family saying 'no'.. even it's our money, it's so freaking hard to say no to parents..
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